I’ll never forget the four page handout my pre-natal class gave us expectant parents. FOUR PAGES! It was insane. It totally freaked me out! The handout was separated into different categories but right away I felt so overwhelmed what I was being told I needed to have for my baby. I even added to the list as the teachers spoke and went over the list! Wow!
What that list didn’t include were tips and reminders of things to DO with baby. Those are what we needed four pages on! I am very comfortable with babies so I guess a lot of this stuff came naturally to me. Here are some of my parenting tips:
- Talk to your baby as they are people. I don’t use “baby talk”. Even though they can’t answer back, I often talk like we are having a conversation.
- Be patient. Sure they may not do things in the prescribed time that books outline or they may be screaming 20 hours a day but as best as possible try to be patient and calm.
- NAP. Who cares about clean houses, laundry being done and perfectly cooked meals. Sure they are nice but you being able to function as a parent far outweighs the other things. I napped with both of my kids all the time. Hence, my often messy house. But I am A-ok with that!
- Don’t compare your kids to other kids. I know it’s easy to do but kids will do everything in their own time. Not worth trying to rush them or waste time worrying about when they will hit certain milestone.
- Enjoy every second (even the stressful ones) because kids grow way too quickly!
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My advice would be to enjoy the little moments. Don’t try to be perfect because there is no such thing.
I am not a parent yet, but it’s my due date today and it will happen anytime! My advice would be to read to your kids right from newborn.
When you’ve having a rough day, go outside with the kids! It will get you some fresh air and the kids will burn off some energy.
Sleep when the baby sleeps.
My advice would be to accept help when it is offered and to enjoy every moment. When you hit a rough patch, remember “this too shall pass”.
don’t ever be worried to ask for help; having a new baby can be very overwhelming
Take lots of pictures! They grow sooo fast!
Always go with your gut! (Suzi)
Don’t be hard on yourself.
Ask for help and advice but always listen to your own inner voice.
Enjoy every moment because they grow up so fast!
their poop will be seed at first 🙂
trust your instincts. thanks
Laugh with your kids everyday!
Jonnie
Be consistent with your discipline.
My advice would be to really listen to your children….
You have to do what works for you and your family. Don’t worry about following the parenting books 100% of the time. Go with the flow:)
sleep when baby sleeps! 🙂
Accept all offers of help and never hesitate to ask for help if you need it.
Chores can wait.
Don’t sweat the small stuff. And a lot of things are small stuff. Enjoy the moments.
don’t stress over every little thing
Don’t panic if things don’t fall into place immediately. Give yourself & baby time, it’s all new to you both.. you will find your groove.
sleep when the baby sleeps
Trust your instincts!
Go on walks for fresh air when possible.
ASK for help if u need it
Start every day fresh, don’t dwell on yesterday if it wasn’t a great day.
take naps when the baby sleeps
Don’t be afraid to ask for help
Sleep when the baby sleeps!
Accept all help offered and sleep when baby sleeps
Sleep when the baby sleeps!
just remember that you are doing great! ask for help if you need it, and have some confidence!
don’t sweat the small stuff!
Consistent
If someone offers help, take it.
Make routines special, read lots of books, enjoy every day
Dont compare your children to each other. Yes they may be from
The same parents, but they each have their own unique personalities & quirks that makes them who they are! 😉